Sunday, February 27, 2011
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Don't be Afraid of a little Makeup
How many of us want to wear more than lip gloss and mascara, but are clueless when it comes to foundations, eyeshadow and blush? Have you ever tried to experiment and ending up looking like Betty Davis in "Whatever Happened to BabyJane?"
Even though I love to wear makeup, I am no makeup artist. I can assist and advise but applying makeup on another person is not my area of expertise. So for all you that may have considered makeup, but were to intimidated to try, I have included a tutorial from a sista that has it going on. She is Ebony from Coloured Beautiful.
Even though I love to wear makeup, I am no makeup artist. I can assist and advise but applying makeup on another person is not my area of expertise. So for all you that may have considered makeup, but were to intimidated to try, I have included a tutorial from a sista that has it going on. She is Ebony from Coloured Beautiful.
‘An essential aspect of creativity is not being afraid to fail.’ ~ Edwin Land~
Monday, February 21, 2011
Tales of a Supermommie...The Working Mother Dilemma.
Are you a working mother by choice or by necessity? In these tough economic times, does the answer to this question really matter? Some women put their career on hold after having kids. What if you can’t afford to do so, then what? What if your career never really took off and you were just working to make ends meet? How do you address those feelings of…should I pursue my career goals or should I pursue a mom friendly job?
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Friday, February 18, 2011
The Coil Review .com - Natural Hair New Year Commercial - Vers 2.1
Women of color are a unique breed. We come in all different shades, starting from the lightest of vanilla to the darkest of chocolate. Our hair is unique. We are in the board room and the operating room. Sistas are doing it for themselves. We have the choice to wear our hair relaxed or natural. The operative word is "CHOICE." However, while we have the choice and freedom to rock a curly fro, or a straight doobee, sometimes one choice my not be accepted by others.
At one time, women of color couldn't wear braids in corporate America. Now we rock, a twa, twists, locks, braids and still can get the job done. I have heard some people express that natural hair is not as polished looking as relaxed hair. Says who???? We must get out of the mentality that our hair in its natural state is not beautiful. Since we are a unique breed, we do not fit the cookie cutter image of women portrayed in the media and by society. Yes, I had relaxed hair and it was beautiful. It was beautiful because it was healthy and I always gave it TLC. I do the same with my natural hair. While going natural my not be for all, at least we can show each other some sisterly support by being an advocate to promote healthy hair and positive images of all women of color.
At one time, women of color couldn't wear braids in corporate America. Now we rock, a twa, twists, locks, braids and still can get the job done. I have heard some people express that natural hair is not as polished looking as relaxed hair. Says who???? We must get out of the mentality that our hair in its natural state is not beautiful. Since we are a unique breed, we do not fit the cookie cutter image of women portrayed in the media and by society. Yes, I had relaxed hair and it was beautiful. It was beautiful because it was healthy and I always gave it TLC. I do the same with my natural hair. While going natural my not be for all, at least we can show each other some sisterly support by being an advocate to promote healthy hair and positive images of all women of color.
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
You Can't Shrink into Greatness!!!
Do you realize that you can create negative outcomes by negative thoughts and fear? Have you ever heard of the saying," If you speak it, you become it."
As I reflect on what I have accomplished, and have not yet to accomplish, I often beat myself up. I am my own worst critic. I criticize and judge myself so much, that I do not recognize a compliment when I hear it. Or better yet, I don't know how to respond once the compliment has been given.
Many women tend to do the same thing. Have you ever received a compliment from another woman on an article of clothing that you were wearing and instead of saying "thank you", you say, "what this old thing?"
YOU CAN'T SHRINK INTO GREATNESS!!!
Positive affirmations are a great source for changing negative thoughts and behaviors. It can take anywhere from 21 to 30 days to create a habit. Why not create a positive one?
I, affirm, that I will release self-judgement and support and encourage myself. I am worthy of compliments and good fortune. I will promote positive energy and encourage others in my life.
As I reflect on what I have accomplished, and have not yet to accomplish, I often beat myself up. I am my own worst critic. I criticize and judge myself so much, that I do not recognize a compliment when I hear it. Or better yet, I don't know how to respond once the compliment has been given.
Many women tend to do the same thing. Have you ever received a compliment from another woman on an article of clothing that you were wearing and instead of saying "thank you", you say, "what this old thing?"
YOU CAN'T SHRINK INTO GREATNESS!!!
Positive affirmations are a great source for changing negative thoughts and behaviors. It can take anywhere from 21 to 30 days to create a habit. Why not create a positive one?
I, affirm, that I will release self-judgement and support and encourage myself. I am worthy of compliments and good fortune. I will promote positive energy and encourage others in my life.
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| "In the depth of winter, I finally learned that there was within me an invincible summer." ~Albert Camus |
Sunday, February 6, 2011
Natural Hair Lingo.
I have received several questions regarding the terms that I've used to describe my natural hair. Here is a list of the most commonly used natural hair lingo terms. Please note, this is not a comprehensive list. See link below.
TWA: Teeny, weeny, afro.
BC: Big chop- is too cut your relaxed hair leaving only your natural hair.
BAA: Bad Azz Afro or Big Azz Afro.
Pre-poo: preparing your hair prior to shampooing by conditioning hair with oils and conditioner to add moisture to hair.
Co-Wash: to wash hair with conditioner and not shampoo as some shampoos can dry out hair. Co-washing adds moisture back into the hair without stripping it of its natural oils.
Wash n go: to wash hair and apply product and allow hair to air dry.
Below is a link to a very comprehensive list.
http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=104119799618544&topic=1
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TWA: Teeny, weeny, afro.
BAA: Bad Azz Afro or Big Azz Afro.
Co-Wash: to wash hair with conditioner and not shampoo as some shampoos can dry out hair. Co-washing adds moisture back into the hair without stripping it of its natural oils.
Wash n go: to wash hair and apply product and allow hair to air dry.
Below is a link to a very comprehensive list.
http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=104119799618544&topic=1
Naturally Me!!!
Curly Nikki | Natural Hair Styles and Curly Hair Care: CN Presents the Kim Coles' Grow-Out Challenge
Curly Nikki Natural Hair Styles and Curly Hair Care: CN Presents the Kim Coles' Grow-Out Challenge: "Hola Chicas! Immediately following actress and comedienne Kim Coles' decision to Big Chop, we discussed her natural hair journey and exper..."
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Hair Food/ My Top Hair Products
I am so loving my natural hair. However, while it allows my hair to be chemical free, it is not maintainance free. My mornings consist of wash and go's in order to rock my TWA. Here is a list of the products that I am currently using. I will post a tutorial on how I style my hair after a wash and go.
Garnier Fructis Fortifying Shampoo for Curly Hair
Garnier Fructis Fortifying Cream Conditioner for Curly Hair (I use this to co-wash)
Giovanni Organic Hair Care Direct Leavin-In Weightless Moisture Conditioner
KEMI Organics OYL All Natural Hair Oil
ECO Styler Olive Oil Styling Gel
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Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Live life with Purpose. Find your Authentic Self!
January 20, 2011 marked my 2 month nappiversary. Often I find myself staring into the mirror and asking..."Who am I?" How many times have you looked into the mirror and asked, "Who am I?" "Why am I me?" "Why am I here?" "What is my life's purpose?"
I've asked myself those questions over and over at various stages in my life, and each and every time it has made my head hurt. I can tell you what I am to others. I am a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a chef, a nurse, a teacher, etc. I still haven't been able to answer the question to my satisfaction.
My natural hair journey has indirectly lead me on the path to finding my authentic self. I've found that in order for me to answer the proverbial question... " Who am I?" I, must first be in alignment with my self image, my values, and my beliefs. I must learn how to define who I am and not what I do..."WHO AM I?"
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I've asked myself those questions over and over at various stages in my life, and each and every time it has made my head hurt. I can tell you what I am to others. I am a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a chef, a nurse, a teacher, etc. I still haven't been able to answer the question to my satisfaction.
My natural hair journey has indirectly lead me on the path to finding my authentic self. I've found that in order for me to answer the proverbial question... " Who am I?" I, must first be in alignment with my self image, my values, and my beliefs. I must learn how to define who I am and not what I do..."WHO AM I?"
Naturally Me
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