Styling Afro Kinky Hair

Good Housekeeping has joined the natural hair movement. Short but simple article about a natural hair sister and her trials and tribulations of styling her natural hair. Styling Afro Kinky Hair

Wearing Ethnic Clothing At Work - Women Displaying Cultural Pride At The Office - Marie Claire

Wearing Ethnic Clothing At Work - Women Displaying Cultural Pride At The Office - Marie Claire

My 4 month Nappiversary!!!

Four months ago, I went natural with no intention to make a statement.  In retrospect, I went natural because I was ready.  I have learned so much about myself.  I now view my hair as an accessory.  I can change it according to my mood.  My hair expresses who I am, and does not define who I am.  Wait...I repeat!  My hair expresses who I am, and does not define who I am.  It has taken me 39 years to realize this.

 As I enter my "life begins at 40" stage, I have made a consciencous effort to feed my mind, body and soul. I have made the conscienceous effort to develop new friendships and to nuture and support old ones. You see, me going natural isn't only about my hair.  It is about self-exploration, and transformation! It is about spiritual growth and empowerment!  It is about acceptance and making decisions...wise, consciencous decisions.  I had my ahh ha moment and realized... going natural is about ME!!!!!

e.l.f Haul from Target

Promise Yourself

This is so inspirational that I had to post it on my blog.  If everyone tried to incorporate one of these concepts into their life the world would be a better place.

Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can
disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to
every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel like there is
something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your
optimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for the best,
and expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others
as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on the
greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give
every living person you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself
that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, and too
strong for fear, and to happy to permit the
presence of trouble.

The Optimist Creed
From The Optimist International

In my Makeup Bag

With spring being right around the corner, I needed to spruce up my makeup bag. I love makeup and it can be very costly.  However, I sometimes purchase my makeup either on sale or from a discount outlet such as Lots for Less. Some women will not purchase discount makeup. Why?  I say, “Why not?!!!” Target, Walgreens, and other drugstores are also great places to find budget friendly makeup.   This week Rite-Aid had a great sale on Maybelline and Revlon products.  So, I gathered my coupons and sale flyer and hit the pavement.

With  BOGOs (By one get one half off) and 40% off products, I purchased a tube of mascara, two bottles of  foundation,  two eye shadow palettes and pressed power all for the price of one bottle of designer foundation.  Yup!!  That’s right!  For less than $50.00 dollars, I was able to fill my makeup bag to the brim. 

 I must admit that I am a MAC addict.  My love for MAC came from sheer need.  As a woman of color, it has been difficult to find the correct color foundation.  Back in the day, I use to pay an arm and a leg to have my foundation custom blended at the Prescriptives counter.  We have come a long way baby…but still are not quite there yet.  Although there are a lot more shades available for women of color, not all stores carry those shades.  So please don’t be discouraged if you cannot find your shade in your local neighborhood drugstore. 




40% off $4.43 Revlon Volume Express Falsies

 

40% off $3.59 Maybelline 4 palette in Seashore Frost



BOGO $13.99 Revlon Color Stay Mineral Finish Powder in Suntan Matte



BOGO $6.50 Revelon Photo Ready Foundation in Caramel



Don’t be afraid to color outside the lines!

Accessories are a girl's best friend!

It has been almost 4 months since my big chop. I have tried several ways to spice up my twa.  I must admit, I bought some hair accessories, however, my daughter has forbidden me from wearing them. LOL!!!!

  While I  continue my search for the perfect, age appropriate,  hair accessories, I will rock my fabulous earrings. Earrings are another great way to showcase your short natural do! Not only have I added several more pairs of earrings to my already large earring collection, I have started a scarf collection too.   Remember to ALWAYS buy accessories on SALE!  Charlotte Russe has a great accessories sale...2 for $8.00.  Can't beat that.  Forever 21 is another favorite for very inexpensive accessories. When it comes to costume and fashion jewlery you can always find bargains. 

 However, I will splurge once in awhile on a fab find from a street vendor. But, I will never spend more than $20.00. unless I LOVE it! Don't be afraid to express your fabulousness through accessories!